Apr 292013
 

I recently attended a seminar for “destressing” students before college midterms and finals. It was an interesting and informative session. The guest speaker went through a whole plethora of details ranging from the stress, health, happiness, and anger that stems from finals and midterms. On the one hand, there are many students that are happy class is finally over and ending but at the same time there are students whom enjoy getting good grades. These are the ones that are at risk of a whole array of health issues.

In order to maintain your happiness and to stay healthy, it is recommended that you take ample breaks and eat properly during the week before finals. Also, it is important to sleep well before each exam, students often have this belief that staying up cramming is actually helpful, but in fact, it damages you and limits your ability to focus properly the next morning. Take it from me, a person who has gone through the whole entire process of school and college that doing these things are absolutely necessary. I hope that I can convey the importance, especially because I didn’t utilize, or even have access to important information like this. I think in order to find true happiness in life is by being healthy and happy with what you have. If you are getting frustrated because of grades then it is important to relax, destress and take a step back and calm down. Everything will look up and look forward.

Remember, in the words of Bob Marley, “Don’t Worry – Be Happy” Everything will work out, good luck on exams!

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Jan 112013
 

Hey guys, I know it has been an incredibly long time since I last posted but It was due to the hurricane and so many things that have been going on. I know these past few months have not been easy, especially for people living on the East Coast of the United States and for those people affected by the crazy tragedies that seem to be happening on a near to daily basis. I feel for everyone and understand that what people are going through is incredibly hard.

However, it is not the worst thing in the world that all of this may be happening. I try my best to think of this as an opportunity to be able to keep my head up and to look forward and to be strong for the people who aren’t strong enough.

Finding Happiness after a Tragedy

That picture speaks a thousand words. The best thing we can do at this pointto find happiness in our lives is simply by saying SHOVE IT!

When we go through these hard times we need to pick our selves up to find happiness, the moments of happiness wont just come to you, you need to find them and make the most of them. Therefore, all I am saying is, SHOVE IT! and pick ourselves up and let us all find the light at the end of the tunnel!

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Oct 202012
 

Anger is not easy to deal with especially if we have already shouted vindictiveness to the persons we love for many long years. These are the people whom you get along with everyday in the house. That’s how the big problem can become if you weren’t able to control your rage. Can you imagine the last time you really got mad with someone in the house? Yes, you hurt your loved ones in the house and the pain and wounds cannot easily subside. It needs to heal for weeks. So, if you are the person who cannot easily manage anger, then I should say that you better think it over the next time you pull over your rage at anybody in the house. It seems that you had temporarily turned into the so-called vindictive rascal, right? So be careful the next you rage and you would not be able to control your temper.

A friend of mine is going through with so much pain after she broke up with her boyfriend only because of uncontrolled emotion. You know, even when you love someone very much, just one outrage will turn your happy days into nightmare and frustration. That is why controlling our emotion is very important. Remember that in a split second we may lose our loved ones. When you inflict pain to your loved ones, it’s really hard to heal the wounds-and sometimes what happens to be a pity quarrel can turn into a big pain in the head.

We all resort to anger when we get mad at some point but managing it is sometimes a failure. This is the main reason why many people can hurt members of the family – worst some even killed their loved ones because of anger. That’s how painful it would be if we failed to manage our rage.

Common ingredients of anger:

Blame – We blame other people if there some external situations which caused our loss, especially when we took advantage of us. It could e that the blame is only a pigment of our imagination.

Lost – if there things that we feel like we have lost something that we have identified with ourselves. These are feelings of pride, money, car or job.

Unfairness – Sometimes we feel we’ve been unfairly treated. We told ourselves that we deserve even more than treated unfairly by other people.  Then we bought stories that some people have wronged us.

Pain – We experience mental distress, pain and anxiety. This pain caused physical responses in our body, destroying our natural energy flow as well as our state of well-being.

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